FRIENDS OF ELLIS™
Spokane's Lifestyle Social Club
MEET & GREETSHave a drink, meet some people, and see if FoE feels like your kind of crowd. No pressure. No play required. EXPLORE MEET & GREETS → |
FoE NIGHTCLUBThe lights go down and the energy goes up. DJ, dancing, drinks, social spaces and adult exploration. EXPLORE CLUB NIGHT → |
HOTEL TAKEOVERSStay onsite, settle in, and turn an ordinary hotel weekend into something unforgettable. EXPLORE TAKEOVERS → |
CAMPOUTSCampfires, activities, play, laughter, and a little beautiful chaos under the stars. EXPLORE CAMPOUTS → |
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SWINGERS 101 — UNDERSTANDStart with the basics: what the Lifestyle is, how couples approach it, and what to talk about together first. START WITH THE BASICS → |
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SWINGERS 102 — PREPAREWhat do you wear? What happens when you arrive? Learn what to expect before walking through the door. GET READY → |
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SWINGERS 103 — PARTICIPATELearn how to meet people, communicate interest, navigate consent and boundaries, and actually enjoy the room once you're there. LEARN THE CULTURE → |
Take your time, ask questions, meet people, and move at your own pace.
STAY AWHILE
THE TAKEOVERThemed rooms, late nights, new connections, and the freedom to enjoy the weekend without rushing home when the party ends. |
GET AWAY
THE CAMPOUTTrade the nightclub for stars and a campfire. Spend the weekend laughing, playing, talking, relaxing, and seeing where the night takes you. |
Choose the kind of weekend you want and make it your own.
Professional DJ, full lighting production, dancing, drinks, social spaces and a night built specifically for FoE.
Club Night: 9 PM–1 AM. Professional DJ, full lighting production, dancing, drinks, social spaces, and room to see where the night goes.
Want to ease into the night? Our Meet & Greet runs from 7–9 PM. Attend either event on its own, or make a night of both. Overnight VIP packages are also available at select Club Nights.
EXPLORE FoE NIGHTCLUB →STAY FOR THE PEOPLE.
Birthdays get celebrated. Friendships form. Weddings happen. People show up for each other.
That's the part of FoE that's hard to explain until you've been here.
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This weekend was the epitome of WHY we all come together. The love was deep and wide.
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We are so grateful for you all and this community.
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Thanks so much everyone for such a sweet and low key weekend. From the bachelor/bachelorette party to the perfect wedding to clean up, it was lovely.
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CONSENT FIRSTAsk before touching. Listen to the answer. Consent should be clear, enthusiastic, and ongoing. |
RESPECT BOUNDARIESA no is enough. A maybe is not a yes. Nobody owes anyone attention, play, or an explanation. |
PROTECT PRIVACYDon't out, tag, photograph, or identify another person without their permission. |
LEAVE PEOPLE BETTERBe kind. Be responsible. Help make FoE somewhere people want to return. |
Explore without judgment while respecting the people around you.
See what's coming up and pick the one that sounds like you.
Exact event addresses are not published publicly. Purchase your ticket and your event details will tell you where to go.
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FIND YOUR PEOPLEBrowse local couples and single women, find people who catch your attention, and start talking. |
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BE SEENYour photos, bio, interests, and what you're looking for give other members a reason to say hello. |
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KNOW BEFORE YOU GOSee who's attending events beforehand. Walking into the room is easier when a few faces are already familiar. |
Approved profiles receive 2 days of complimentary access to explore the member community before choosing a membership.
