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FRIENDS OF ELLIS™
Spokane's Lifestyle Social Club
Meet. Connect. Dance. Explore.
Meet & Greets • Nightclub Events • Hotel Takeovers • Campouts
Since 2018, Friends of Ellis has brought together people from across the Inland Northwest for unforgettable events, new friendships, education, and a place to explore the Lifestyle at your own pace.
Look around. Get to know us. Join when you're ready to experience FoE.
Look around. Get to know us. Join when you're ready to experience FoE.
PRIVATE EVENT LOCATIONS. Exact venue details and addresses are provided to registered or ticketed attendees.
FoE welcomes couples and single women. Single men are accepted by invitation only after completing FoE's vetting and approval process. All in-person events are 21+.
NOT JUST A DATING SITE. NOT JUST A PARTY.
Friends of Ellis is where the online Lifestyle becomes real life.
Meet people. Make friends. Flirt. Dance. Learn. Take over a hotel. Spend a weekend around a campfire. Come for one night or somehow end up with people you can't imagine not knowing.
FoE is built around real people actually getting together.
Meet people. Make friends. Flirt. Dance. Learn. Take over a hotel. Spend a weekend around a campfire. Come for one night or somehow end up with people you can't imagine not knowing.
FoE is built around real people actually getting together.
You don't need experience. You don't have to play. You don't have to walk through the door knowing exactly what you're looking for.
Meet the community. Find your comfort level. Make the experience your own.
Meet the community. Find your comfort level. Make the experience your own.
THERE'S MORE THAN ONE WAY TO EXPERIENCE FoE.
Looking for a low-key introduction, a night on the dance floor, or an entire weekend away? Pick the experience that sounds like you.
MEET & GREETSHave a drink, meet some people, and see if FoE feels like your kind of crowd. Social, relaxed and no pressure to do anything beyond meeting people. EXPLORE MEET & GREETS → |
FoE NIGHTCLUBThe lights go down and the energy goes up. DJ, dancing, drinks, social spaces and an adult nightlife experience built for FoE. EXPLORE NIGHTCLUB → |
HOTEL TAKEOVERSStay onsite, settle in, and turn an ordinary hotel weekend into something people talk about long after it's over. EXPLORE TAKEOVERS → |
CAMPOUTSCampfires, activities, laughter, connection, play and a little beautiful chaos under the stars. EXPLORE CAMPOUTS → |
COME FOR THE EXPERIENCE.
STAY FOR THE PEOPLE.
STAY FOR THE PEOPLE.
Somewhere between the parties, campfires, late-night conversations and ridiculous adventures, something happens. The people you recognize from events start becoming people you actually know.
Birthdays get celebrated. Friendships form. Weddings happen. People show up for each other.
That's the part of FoE that's hard to explain until you've been here.
Birthdays get celebrated. Friendships form. Weddings happen. People show up for each other.
That's the part of FoE that's hard to explain until you've been here.
DON'T TAKE OUR WORD FOR IT.
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This weekend was the epitome of WHY we all come together. The love was deep and wide.
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We are so grateful for you all and this community.
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Thanks so much everyone for such a sweet and low key weekend. From the bachelor/bachelorette party to the perfect wedding to clean up, it was lovely.
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Some call it community. Some call it chosen family. We call it Friends of Ellis.
CURIOUS? GOOD.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO KNOW WHAT YOU'RE DOING YET.
You don't need to know the terminology. You don't need experience. And you definitely don't need to have everything figured out.
We built a roadmap for exactly that.
Learn what the Lifestyle is. Speak the language. Discover the Unwritten Code. Understand consent, community standards and what to expect at an event. Then explore everything else Friends of Ellis has to offer.
Start at the beginning or jump straight to whatever brought you here.
SEXY DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING GOES.
The best nights happen when people can relax, flirt, dance, explore, say yes, say no, and trust that both answers matter.
CONSENT FIRSTAsk before touching. Listen to the answer. Consent should be clear, enthusiastic and ongoing. |
RESPECT BOUNDARIESA no is enough. A maybe is not a yes. Nobody owes anyone attention, play or an explanation. |
PROTECT PRIVACYDon't out, tag, photograph or identify another person without their permission. |
LEAVE PEOPLE BETTERBe kind. Be responsible. Help make FoE somewhere people want to return. |
Freedom works best with responsibility.
Explore without judgment while respecting the people around you.
Explore without judgment while respecting the people around you.
YOUR NEXT STORY STARTS HERE.
Maybe it's your first Meet & Greet. Maybe it's a night on the dance floor. Maybe you disappear for an entire weekend.
See what's coming up and pick the one that sounds like you.
See what's coming up and pick the one that sounds like you.
PRIVATE LOCATIONS
Exact event addresses are not published publicly. Registered or ticketed attendees receive the information they need for their event.
Exact event addresses are not published publicly. Registered or ticketed attendees receive the information they need for their event.
READY TO COME INSIDE?
Looking around is free. So is creating your FoE profile. When you're ready to become part of the member community and attend FoE events, that's where membership comes in.
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CREATE YOUR FREE PROFILEIntroduce yourselves, add your photos, and tell us enough about you that we can get a feel for who is joining the community. |
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GET APPROVEDEvery new profile is reviewed. FoE is built around real people who genuinely want to participate in the community. |
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ACTIVATE WHEN YOU'RE READYWhen you're ready to move from looking around to participating, activate your membership and step inside FoE. |
WHAT DOES MEMBERSHIP UNLOCK?
Your active FoE Membership opens the member community: browse member profiles, send messages, join the FoE Discord, access member benefits, and purchase tickets to FoE events.
Membership doesn't buy you a night out. It connects you to the people behind FoE.
Your active FoE Membership opens the member community: browse member profiles, send messages, join the FoE Discord, access member benefits, and purchase tickets to FoE events.
Membership doesn't buy you a night out. It connects you to the people behind FoE.
Explore for free. Join when you're ready to experience FoE.
CREATE YOUR FREE FoE PROFILE LEARN ABOUT MEMBERSHIP
Free profiles are available to couples and single women and are subject to approval. Single men are accepted by invitation only after completing FoE's vetting and approval process.
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